Fidelity: Regina Spektor’s #PhillipsSongOfTheDay

I don’t really know what drove me to do this, but I woke up one morning and thought “I should get a Regina Spektor album.”  I mean, I don’t even know how I knew her name; I think I saw it on iTunes or somewhere, but somehow it stuck with me.  So I went out and got Begin to Hope and What We Saw From the Cheap Seats.  Since then, I’ve really become taken with her song “Fidelity” from Begin to Hope…making it #PhillipsSongOfTheDay.

Regina Spektor's fourth album Begin to Hope features "Fidelity," her first #PhillipsSongOfTheDay

Regina Spektor’s fourth album Begin to Hope features “Fidelity,” her first #PhillipsSongOfTheDay

Apparently Regina Spektor started out as a classical musician with plans only to play classical music.  Then she was introduced to hip hop music and changed her whole musical style.  How she ended up with her indie/folk/alternative/singer-songwriter style from all that, I’m not entirely sure.  But she released her first major label album, Begin to Hope, in 2006 and was certified Gold by the RIAA (Recording Industry Association of America).  She did release three albums prior to the release of Begin to Hope, but they were self-released.

What I like about “Fidelity” is the fact that from the first second of the song, it’s got you tapping your foot to the steady beat.  I don’t think you could categorize this song as a “happy” song, given the fact the chorus is her singing “it breaks my heart” four times in a row, but the beat and the pizzicato orchestral strings give the song a bouncy feel which makes it feel optimistic and upbeat.

Listen to “Fidelity,” by Regina Spektor:

Personally, I think Spektor is singing about never being in love, falling in love, then falling out of love.  This is because she starts the song out by singing that she, in the past, never loved anyone.  Specifically, she sings:

“I never loved nobody fully
Always one foot on the ground
And by protecting my heart truly
I got lost in the sounds…
I hear in my mind all these words
I hear in my mind all this music
And it breaks my heart”


But then in the second verse, Spektor sings a lot about hypothetical “suppose” situations that deal with not being in love, which indicates that in that moment she is in love.  For example, she sings “suppose I never ever met you/Suppose we never fell in love.”  Because she’s adding the “suppose” to the lines, she is indicating that she is in a loving relationship; her hypothetical life is one where she never meets her love.

Now, we look to the bridge where there’s a third element that is added of where her love has left her.  At the bridge, she sings that her friends tell her it will get “better.”  Why would the situation need to get better if she was with the person that she loves, the person who should make her so happy (do you know anyone who is in love with someone who doesn’t make them happy?)?

The great thing about music, though, is that you can interpret it anyway you want.  You don’t have to take “Fidelity” as a song about heartache or loss.  I don’t want to.  To me, the bouncy energy and the lyrics in the verses indicate the feeling of falling in love for the first time.  And that’s perfectly okay.  The words and the music say something, but if you hear it a different way that is awesome.


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